Most of the world hide the judgment and use the "love, care" as a cover...
You can see, hear pharses like "I just want the best for you" I just afraid of you to catch cold, to hurt ...." "You should eat everything to be strong and healthy"...
All of these sentences have a hidden message:
" You are not able to deal with your life. You are doing wrong, You are weak, impotent..."
Bert Hellinger said " Everybody has the power for its own life. If you want to solve instead of he you take his power so he won't able to deal with it and because it is not yours you are not able to solve and you do not deal with yours neither."
What is true Love, Care... ?
You trust in others (even their are your kids...) they know what to do, what goid for them, what should choose…
You are in total allowance with them. Do not judge anything and not even in silent, unhidden. Everybody, specially children preceive the energy… you do not have to say anything.
Be in “everything is just an interesting point of view” and when you are in this neutral state... you do not create the reality of you and them accordance your point of view, patterns, “programming”, family patterns… (because your point of view create the reality!) ... you open the space where anything can happen and the others can be true themself.
We.... most of us ... at least me had this point of view "Nobody need me, Nobody listen to me, I am too much if I am truly being me..People leave me because of I am too much...so it is better to hide.... nobody love me... so... better I try to fix myself to be loveable... so I hide my truly being, try to please others, believe what they believe, agree with them... and may they start to love me.... at least a bit...
(Or you can do the fight....The other side of the same coin...and even you can mix these… more “fun”)
All of these because we believed what parents, family, teachers, community, world… taught, said to us.The all judgments…packed into “love, care…”. And we use the hide,/ fight / defend tools to survive.
What you are avoiding sticks you. What you are defending for or against sticks you. What you are hiding or just it is in your blind spot(you put there to survive) sticks you.
You realised you just hurt yourself with these... you wish the true love for your true being... which you never get if you hide your true being ... Can you see the trap?
Who did show these for me? My daughter... She caught some cold... stayed at home...
And the game has started... “read me:... “play with me”... and I've got the "I would like to write down all thing what I have just now”... and I felt bad if I do not do because I betray myself. I have that thoughts " She obstruct me to do what I love to do, what is my path., the way how I would like to live my life" and the guilt that I am bad came more bigger... My daughter keep saying..”play, read please”... with the meaning if I do not do I do not love her, I do not care her ...so I am a bad mum...guilty..."
Were them hers thoughts... or just a little girl of my past? Were those my thoughts or just my parents, and so many anchestors’ who lived in a difficult time (wars) and felt they can not feed, protect their child and that’s why they are failed? All of them NONE of them? (none of them... that would be another long interesting story...it does not matter...)
Yes I felt the same in my childhood... nobody need me, care me, listen to me, interested in me.... not because my parents were bad.... they were busy... and also has a "big" past as a childhood... And I learned, picked up their feelings, thoughts from the conception so I lived accordance those too.
The point... what did I do to change this...?
What can you do, do not betray yourself and in the same time clear that thoughts, feelings of your child she is not loved? And let she know she loved not because it happens what she want... just because she is, her life, herself... do not need anybody from outside... to love because she loved in evey breath... and the love is misindentified by world long time ago.
I am 48 in 4 days... and these things still sticks me.. I stick to these.. the experience created points of view, my body cells keep these memories to keep me safe and I live according these. Even "teach" my children to these points of view, of course not consciosness...!
How you can change, clear, vanish all of these with ease? In one day maybe in one snap? Yes you read right. You do not need psychoanalysis, years of therapy, travel into the childhood, previous life, meditate daily at fix time, do special diate, live in celibacy… and yes you are able to clear this, facilitate your life with everything!
Let me show you. I invite you a online event where we can clear all of these and if you choose you can learn more about this. Simple you can do it too just nobody show you before. Actually they taught total different things which are agains your truly being.
Come, take the chance for something different, something greater and live a greater life. What can you loose? (your traumas, programming..)
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Angelika
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